2. How to set up a date?
I’m assuming at this point that you’ve already made initial contact with her (either through your friends or on your own) and have obtained that ever-important phone number.
Generally, it’s advisable to call her back within a maximum of one week after that first encounter. Wait any longer and the rapport that you have may fade away into nothingness.
If at all possible, call her at home so she’ll have a better chance of writing down the details. Emails as well as voice and text messages are at risk of being accidentally deleted or overlooked. Even calling her mobile isn’t a good idea because she may be distracted or won’t have anything to write with.
If there’s one thing you should know about inviting her, it’s the importance of having a definite plan with specific details (i.e. the time and place where you want to meet). The worst way to do this is blurt something out like, “Hey there, remember me? Why don’t we grab a bite of something at any place you want, any time is good for me too”
Remember, women appreciate a guy with a firm masculine presence. If you’re going to call her up and sound unsure, it’s a huge giveaway that you’re not really in control of your life.
Is she prejudging you? You better believe it. Don’t tell me that your own brain isn’t running in the background when you’re checking out potential women to approach. It is exactly the same thing for her.
That’s just the female mind at work and sometimes, it’s better to go with the flow than against it.